Monday, March 7, 2011


Everything that happens in our life does so for a reason. Everything has meaning.

We may not want to think this is true. We may want to think that only good things that happen are gifts. The reality of life is that things happen that we approve of – that we like or enjoy. And, things also happen that we feel are hurtful, painful, or that we believe make us suffer.

The paradox is that, for some people, it is not suffering. We can observe two different people in the same condition and they will each handle the situation differently. One person can be devastated by a disease, divorce, or loss of a job or home. Another person can look at the loss or illness as a blessing; as a gift of a new and better relationship or as a way to live closer to nature.

The meaning that your life has is whatever you give it. Your life and your experiences are whatever you perceive them to be, for better or worse. If you assign a meaning of regret to an experience then, no matter what anyone else tries to tell you about your experience, it will always hold regret for you.

Here is the magic in that paradox: If you look for the good in every experience, you will always – I mean always – find it! Even if it is an experience that happened to you fifty years ago; you can go into the treasury bank of your memories, review the events or experience and create a new feeling for it. You can take an experience in which you may have felt devastated, and decide to feel differently.

For example, suppose you had a horrible experience as a child, perhaps you were made fun of or you got beaten up. You could decide to be sad about that or you could decide that it was an experience that made you stronger, made you a person of great strength and fortitude today. In other words, the experience was the fire that forged your personality and made you great. You can look at any situation of detriment in your life in this way. You can flip the coin of bad happenings in your life to reveal the silver linings.

Archangel Chamuel, the Finder Angel, can help you. Just ask, “Archangel Chamuel, please help me find a way to see unfortunate situations in a new way. Help me to see the true meaning of love and goodness in every experience of my life. Thank you!” Chamuel and all of your Infinite Angels are always around you to assist you with these wonderful changes.

Infinite Blessings from your Infinite Angels.

© 2011 Dr. Shanimah Leal Ra, PhD.
Clinical Hypnotherapist, Forensic Hypnotist,
Angel Therapy Practitioner®

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